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I teach and practice Gestalt therapy, Career decision coaching, and Family Constellations work. As well as Australia, I teach workshops and training in China, Japan, Korea, the USA & Mexico. I am author of Understanding The Woman In Your Life, a book of advice for men about relationships with women. In my work as director of Lifeworks I provide therapy,  training and supervision. I am a Phd candidate, studying the interpersonal dynamics of power, and am currently director of an MA in Spiritual Psychology for Ryokan College, an accredited online institution based in LA.

2017年1月28日 星期六

案例 #196 - 和风玩耍

安波说她有时会晕倒,照她描述的状况,看起来很清楚这和压力相关。

我让她在描述的时候和自己的感受保持连接。她感觉到头部的压力,当她和这样的感觉在一起的时候,她说好像头部周围有很多的空气,把她往下压。停在这样的景象里,她又描述说空气是流动的,像暴风雨,或者甚至是飓风。她感觉风在一下下地抽打她。

她描述的经历看起来很恰当-被吹得站不住脚,被比她更强大的力量所淹没。

所以我就邀请了另一位组员来扮演强大的风。

安波站在前面,风的代表移动她的胳膊好像她在吹动安波。

安波的反映是震惊的-她向后退,浑身紧缩,看上去很受惊吓的样子。所以我就让代表停。我给到安波支持-走进她,帮助她保持呼吸,留在当下,放松。然后我们再次尝试,安波的反映是一样的——恐惧、紧缩。于是我站在安波后面,这样她的背就可以靠着我,我把手放在她的肩膀上,帮助她感觉安全和落地。

然后"风"又来了。这次安波能够把手伸出来,不像以前一样缩着,但她还是感觉冻僵。"风"说她感觉很好玩,即使她得来势汹汹。

我再次支持安波,去让她感受来自风的能量,能够做到尝试去互动,去玩耍。

这次她做到了,也移动她的手,这样看起来两者之间好像有些小小的舞动。

我们这么做了几次,我又鼓励安波保持呼吸,留在当下,留在身体里,感觉风在她身体里的感觉。

当她这么做的时候,她真的可以和风玩耍,随风而动。

她感觉不可思议地被赋予能量,报告说她第一次不再害怕被风淹没。
我们没有走进内容-这到底在她的生命中意味着什么。我们甚至也没有去探索来龙去脉,到底是她被生命中的什么人和事所淹没。

对现在来说,这些细节都不重要。关注这些甚至会转移注意力。

她感觉到了身体层面的整合-她不再防备,而是感觉到可以利用"风"的力量,她自己内在野性的能量。

我们在完形中工作于这样的整合。

跟随直觉,首要的是整合两极化的经历-特别是人们自己否定和抗拒的那部分。

这就给当事人渐增的能量和能力奠定了基础,很多其他的好的和渴望的事情就会由此流动起来。

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