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I teach and practice Gestalt therapy, Career decision coaching, and Family Constellations work. As well as Australia, I teach workshops and training in China, Japan, Korea, the USA & Mexico. I am author of Understanding The Woman In Your Life, a book of advice for men about relationships with women. In my work as director of Lifeworks I provide therapy,  training and supervision. I am a Phd candidate, studying the interpersonal dynamics of power, and am currently director of an MA in Spiritual Psychology for Ryokan College, an accredited online institution based in LA.

2017年3月31日 星期五

案例 #206 - 上帝之声

   每当梅布尔谈到她的灵性的时候,她都说会感到焦虑,她说她胃里有些痉挛。
   梅布尔之前并没有宗教信仰,但是近些年她加入了教会。她对许多东西心存感激,并认为她最新发现的宗教经历非常有价值。但是有一些宗教教条她不能接受也不会接受,包括性欲方面的负面看法以及对同性恋的谴责,正是这些困扰着她。她的哥哥是同性恋,所以这些教条让她感到被冒犯,所以她并不想释放自己的灵性。
   因此,我邀请她和神父进行了一次"谈话"。我们为神父放了一把椅子,她告诉神父自己的感觉和对于她来说什么是真的。当她来扮演神父的角色的时候,神父的反应是优越和不屑一顾的。
   我支持梅布尔站在她自己的立场上,清楚地确定自己的界限和底线——她不能容忍什么。两个人各自坚持自己的意见谈话,神父拿着自己的武器,她也拿着自己的武器对应,这个问题看上去不能解决。
   我为"上帝"放了另一把椅子,让她坐在那个椅子上和"梅布尔"谈话. "上帝的声音"说:对牧师有一颗怜悯的心,接受他原本的样子。
这似乎是一个电路断路器。梅布尔回到自己的坐位,她现在终于能跟神父说出"我不同意你的观点。我知道我们永远无法达成共识,我接受这个事实,也尊重我们的不同。我可以接受你正在凭你对上帝的感觉,尽自己最大的努力来做好。我也同样在尽我所能,凭我的信念来做好这一切。"
回到神父的角度,这次反应达成了一致。
当梅布尔结束这段对话后,她非常平静的谈了自己的感想。一段时间以来,让她内心困扰斗争的混乱已经完全消失了。他感到了真正的辨别和清晰,用一种纯心灵的方式来解决这个棘手的难题。
她也得以能继续保持她的精神信念。事实上,她也感觉到了一种全新的推动她前行的力量。通过这样做,让他能够在和教堂的教条方面保持联系的同时,也能保持自己的灵性。
   这是一个许多人都要面对的问题。格式塔理论要求我们在没有得到任何方向和建议的指引下,找到一个更高层次的解决方法。像这样在精神问题的领域,对于我们能够用治疗的过程来支持人们的心灵旅程,能够起到巨大的作用。

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